Dealing with Chronic Pain: My Story
When you lose an arm or a leg, you are bound to get a lot of sympathy from friends and family, and almost everyone else you encounter in your daily life. The missing limb is a visible indicator that you are someone who is suffering, and who is therefore deserving of due consideration in all aspects of life. If however, you are someone like me, who suffers from chronic pain, the sympathy and understanding of those around you are a little harder to come by. I suppose one can’t blame them, beyond a point. After all, if a friend, relative or coworker, constantly complains of overwhelming pain, even though he or she looks perfectly fine, isn’t it natural for you to wonder “What’s he complaining about? He looks like he’s in good shape” or “Everyone gets a backache once in a while. Why’s she making such a big deal about it?” The truth, which every sufferer of chronic pain, including me, is aware of all too well, is that the pain can sometimes be as bad as the pain of losing a limb – particularly if you suffer from complex regional pain syndrome. Not to mention, everyone has a different pain tolerance.